Sunday, November 28, 2010

beyond child support and health care

beyond child support and health care?
IPay child support and health care for my child. He got into some trouble with some friends and lawyer fees are now involved his mother picked the lawyer and now wants to sue me for half of the fees. She does not let me have any say so in his life and makes poor judgments that got him in this mess. Am I obligated to pay this?
Law & Ethics - 9 Answers

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Yes u are, its the law
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I say no. Obligated no. I think as a father though, you may WANT to help yor son. That is up to you. Don't spoite your son cause your ex sucks.
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Probably so. Because no matter what it's YOUR CHILD to0. But you should let the courts know she's not letting you be the Father you want to be & try to file for joint custody
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well, do you have to pay? not unless it says so in your agreement, should you help your child out? yes. not because she said so, but because it is the right thing to do.
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Not an expert or anything, but this might be one of those cases where you might have to pay half unless it can be proved that she directly caused the problems. Also why do you let his mother keep you out of your son's life? You do have rights especially since you do pay child support you should fight for your rights. If you think that if you were more involved with him this wouldn't have happened, then you should make the effort before something else happens.
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If you don't have your own attorney then I would suggest you get one. Otherwise tell her to pound salt, set back and wait to see where she goes with it. If you are in compliance with the courts rulings on what you are suppose to pay your in the clear. Of course your obligation as a father my weigh more heavily on your heart.
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Child support is set by the court, not a parent or guardian. You are only obligated if so directed by a judge. Until then, you can tell your ex to push off. You may also oppose in court any effort by her or her lawyer to increase child support, for this or any other reason. You have been given leverage here. Consider using it to benefit your child.
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Only if the judge who adjudicated your divorce or one from a higher court orders it. The criminal court might (although I doubt it) try to order you to pay it. If it goes unpaid and is put into collections, the attorney may try to come after you for the balance, BUT as long as you did not sign any agreement to pay, and did not have any say in the choice of attorney, nor were given the opportunity to opt for a public defender, then you are not obligated to pay. You signed nothing, right? You agreed to nothing via telephone, right? If so, you are in the clear. Might sound harsh, but let them sort this out. Be supportive emotionally for your son, but let him (and Mom) take responsibility. We all have to fall down before we can learn to walk. Of course, I offer this not knowing the full story, so if there is more, I could be wrong: about the let him sort it our part, not the financial responsibility part.
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Unless this is specifically stated in your original child support court orders, then I doubt that you are legally obligated to pay for half of the attorney's fees in his criminal proceedings. You may, however, find yourself legally liable in terms of civil litigation, whereas the third party is suing to recoup costs. This would be the case in a car accident, or other damage to property relating to criminal mischief... etc. If her attorney pursues this monetary issue relating to the legal fees, then you can counter file in family court for sole custody of your son - on the grounds that she is not equipped to adequately monitor the minor child, leading to criminal offenses. Do this ONLY if you are TOTALLY prepared to be the full-time Dad you know he needs now. Either way, if there is any way that you can spend more time with you son, do so now. This may be his cry for help, and need for a father's love and support emotionally. It can be hard to do, especially if you live far away - but really try. Winter break from school would be the ideal time to start. Good Luck!

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Wednesday, November 24, 2010

when results of a study trial for a child's health aren't promising, should the researcher tell the patient?

when results of a study trial for a child's health aren't promising, should the researcher tell the patient?
When a study trial, kind of an experimental trial don't look too great for the child to progress in, should the researcher tell the patient? And at what point in time? Please comment
Other - Health - 4 Answers
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Yes ofcourse. Every parent has the right to know.
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Since it is only a trial present it scientifically to the parent.
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The researcher should definitely tell the patient, keeping them up to date. but remind them that it is in fact just a study trial and that there still is hope.You should tell them right away because not telling them is just filling them with false hope. Also if its a child maybe you should tell the parents and let them decide how to break it to the child!
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What you wrote isn't detailed enough to be able to help you much. If a child shouldn't continue in a study that is ongoing due to health, the child should be dismissed from the experiment and a reason should be given. If the study is already over, you can issue out a report form that informs the child/parent of the suitability for further continuance. Its always advisable to be upfront about stuff concerning health, even if it may invalidate/violate your experiment. Address your concerns, but don't make a diagnosis, or say stuff that you have no right saying. Only doctors can diagnose, and you can easily find yourself on the blunt end of outraged parents should you tell them negative stuff that you have no right diagnosing.

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Saturday, November 20, 2010

What's a good website to teach my young child about health & exercise-something she can navigate herself

What's a good website to teach my young child about health & exercise-something she can navigate herself?

Medicine - 2 Answers

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This is a great website. I had to let my son research information on the new food pyramid and all...they have a game for kids, coloring pages, tips for families, a whole kids website area for learning! http://www.mypyramid.gov/kids/index.html
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I love drweil.com he has great health and wellness info sometimes the info is scientific but she will definately learn a lot.

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Tuesday, November 16, 2010

Do health insurers generally cover step children

Do health insurers generally cover step children?
My boyfriend and I plan to marry soon, and my boys are 14 and 17. They have insurance through the state child health plus plan right now. I have full custody of them. By law, their dad is supposed to have them covered, but his employment is spotty, so we can't / don't depend on him to cover them. (I have insurance through the state's family health plus plan.)
Parenting - 4 Answers
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only if your new husband adopts them other wise its up to you and your ex to insure the kids
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I would say it depends on the company. Some are really open and cover all "dependants" which can also be an adult child in school or elderly parent while others only cover adopted/biological children of the recipient. Your best bet is to go in and talk to the HR manager at his employer and ask them for information packets. there is usually a grace period where you can add dependants to your coverage within a certain amount of time of them becoming dependants.
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My husband's insurance covers my daughter, thankfully, cause her bio dad can't be relied on for anything! But, I don't know if that's standard procedure. It seems like these days insurance companies will do anything to deny benefits.
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yes step children can be covered. You have to be married for it to go into effect. They will require a copy of the marriage license. I have my step daughter on my insurance through my employeer. There is no problems. Your new husband does not have to adopt your sons to have coverage.

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Friday, November 12, 2010

How is child exploitation prevented when sponsored through Dept of health and human services programs

How is child exploitation prevented when sponsored through Dept of health and human services programs?

Law Enforcement & Police - 3 Answers

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When WHAT is sponsored by HHS???? THIS IS WHY WE NEED BETTER SCHOOLS. YOU need to learn how to ask a complete question.
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You need to further explain your question.
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I doubt it could be true

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Monday, November 8, 2010

Who do I listen to... doctor vs maternal and child health nurse

Who do I listen to... doctor vs maternal and child health nurse??
Sorry if this is a bit long but here goes... Here in Australia we have what is called a maternal and child health nurse (MCHN) that we go to for regular visits. Not sure if it is the same elsewhere. My daughter is 6 months and we saw the MCHN weekly to start with then it gradually gets less frequent. A few months ago I tried my daughter on a little bit of formula (exclusively breast fed until then) and she did not tolerate it (vomiting and blood in diarrhea). I was told that she is most likely dairy intolerant but that it is likely to resolve. Since then, I have removed all dairy from my diet which has definitely made me little girl happier and her weight gain was more appropriate. My daughter also started on solids about 2 months ago and eagerly has 3 meals per day after a breast feed. About 2 weeks ago she became really constipated so I tried altering her diet (no rice cereal, more pears etc). I saw the MCHN last thursday and asked her when and how I should reintroduce dairy (should I slowly introduce it into my diet or wait until my daughter is older and try it in her diet then) and she said I might as well try her on a little bit of cow's milk now (just a bit on her cereal) and that the worst thing it will do is help the constipation. Within 2 days, she had diarhhea which wasn't surprising but she wasn't irritable and didn't seem to have an upset tummy. I stopped the milk and she became constipated again. I've also started giving her natural yoghurt and that hasn't given her diarhhea yet (3 days so far) Yesterday I took her to the doc who looked at me incrediously when I told her what the MCHN had said and she also basically scoffed at me when I said she had been on solids for about 2 months. Everything she said to me was in a tone like (duh, why don't you know this?). She said absolutely NO dairy until Lucy is 1 year. I tried to explain about the yoghurt and she just talked over the top of me. She gave me some information on relieving the constipation which I am trying. I'm just a bit confused about the differing advice. I know that the doctor had more years of study but she doesn't really know my daughter whereas the MCHN has seen her probably about 20 times in the last 6 months. I also don't know if I am overreacting. Any advice on who I should listen to and why? Oh... the MCHN also told me to wait before introducing wheat but the doc wants me to give her weet-bix now???
Newborn & Baby - 3 Answers
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It sounds like the health nurse knows what she is talking about. Your baby might be milk intolerant for the rest of her life though, that's how it started with my sister. But if you do want to start on formula you can look into a potato based formula, that's what my sister had to use. And for cows milk you should try Lactaid and see how that works with her system. Good luck with your baby.
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Generally dairy is not introduced until 10 - 12 months. Also dairy usually makes constipation worse. Don't let the doctor make you feel stupid... you were following the advise of a trusted professional. Dairy is hard to digest and should not be introduced at a young age. (but many have done it anyway for many many generations). Now they say to wait until a year. I don't know why your MCHN told you this, she must have her reasons or maybe her training is old? Anyway, don't let the doctor make you feel bad! Follow your instincts and do research online on both view points if you are still uncomfortable. I don't think you will find much to advocate giving dairy to a baby though. I find that babies easily become constipated when introducing solids and they often poop considerablely less.... I gave my son apple sauce or prune juice and that cleared him right out.
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so many months and weeks in your post I'm alittle confusd but I think you say your daughter is only six months old standard here in the US is to wait till 1 year to introduce cows milk so if I read your post correctly I would say your nurse is wrong and your doctor is correct your daughter should be on Formula or breast for milk up to a year at six months you can introduce solids rice or wheat cereal mixed with breast milk or formula. I'm not familiar with weet-bix but if it like rice cereal than it should be fine edit four months is alittle early for introducing solids and its more likely your daughter just isn't ready for that much solids yet. each child is different i would back off on the solids a little and keep it very simple

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Thursday, November 4, 2010

do i have to keep outside my 11 year old dog because fur is bad for my child health

do i have to keep outside my 11 year old dog because fur is bad for my child health?

Dogs - 12 Answers

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I don't understand the question. Is your child allergic to dog fur? It is never a good idea to keep a dog outside. If you are concerned about fur, I would just be sure to vacuum regularly and brush your dog often.
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No, of course not. Unless your children are allergic, then dog fur and dander is actually *better* for their health. Having them exposed to these things will make their immune systems stronger.
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That would be a terrible thing to do to a long time family companion, that's probably near the end of his years. Is your child allergic? If he is, be diligent about cleaning the hair and brushing your dog and possibly giving your child allergy meds. If he's not, what's the problem? A little hair never hurt anybody.
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Unless your child is allergic, of course not. Be sure to vaccum regularly to pick up all the excess fur.. If your dog is long haired you could also have him/her shaved especially in the summer. But no, leaving a dog outside is never a good idea
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Keeping the dog outside is a very bad idea. Im assuming the dog has been inside most of his life and at 11 years old it is not good to change his whole life. Its not fair to him. I would suggest shaving the dog and vaccuuming alot. Although the dog might not look as pretty, if you love him it won't matter what he looks like as long as he gets to stay inside and have all the love he always had from you.
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I would
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umm...maybe u could just keep it in a seperate rooom because dogs shouldn't be kept outside
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I addiction to vacuuming and brushing , try buying air purifiers and change your furnace's filter often.
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So far I'm agreeing with almost every answer. If your child is not allergic there shouldn't be a problem. Brush your pet regularly and clean the dog hair from furniture, floors, etc on a regular basis. If the child is allergic, cleaning often will help, maybe keep the dog and child separated as much as possible, but don't kick the dog out of the house.
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If your child has no symptoms of allergies, there is no reason to put the dog outside. If your child is having allergy symptoms, it is up to you to decide waht to do about it. Throwing the dog outside after living indoor for its whole life could be dangerous, and the dog could get very upset. However, I can understand you not wanting your child to be drugged up just to be comfortable in their house. If your child has asthma, I can definitely understand putting the dog out it it has caused attacks. If your child is having problems, talk to their doctor. You may be able to find a dru that works without too many side effects. It could be that something else is causing or is aggrivating your childs allergies. Carpeting in their room or around that house may be holding the dander enough to cause worse symptoms. They also hold dust mites and their feces, which cause allerigies ina lot of people. Try brushing the dogs fur out and vaccuming more. You may also decide that it is best to just keep the dog outside or to give it to another family. You need to take care of the dog, but you also need to care for your child. Explore your options and see whats right for you.
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I'm not sure I understand your question. Is your child allergic to the dog? Has a physician tested your child and determined that the dog must go for the sake of your child's health? ...... If so, then it's pretty basic that a child ranks higher in the pack than the dog. You can discuss treatments for your child with the physician ... in hopes of keeping the dog inside as well. If someone told you that dog fur is bad for your child's health, what evidence do they have to support their theory? Outside of allergies, I have never seen dog fur have an adverse effect on a child. The benefits of having a pet far outweigh the necessity to vacuum more often.
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It is a medically proven fact that kids, especially boys, raised with dogs are less prone to having allergies than kids not raised around dogs. If your kids aren't allergic, bring the dog inside where a companion should be.

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Monday, November 1, 2010

If i was your spouse or child, would you add me to your health insurance policy

If i was your spouse or child, would you add me to your health insurance policy?
every morning i wake up thinking...ok should i work the solution or should i work the problem and quess what?
Women's Health - 1 Answers
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OF COURSE I WILL THAT'S A GIVEN THEY ARE MY FAMILY.

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