Sunday, August 28, 2011

My daughter's CHILD HEALTH PLUS (in NY) will expire in May when she turns 19

My daughter's CHILD HEALTH PLUS (in NY) will expire in May when she turns 19...?
Will Obama's new health care plan remedy that? I always knew she had the option to purchase insurance when she turned 19, but it was incredibly expensive, and she's a college student without a job. I hope the new insurance is affordable (or the govt. kicks in)
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supposedly it does.otherwise you will need to purchase it.I hope that this turns out ok for you.Time will tell.
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It's going to be Four Years (4) before this plan starts, if it dose then.




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Wednesday, August 24, 2011

mental health child custody

mental health child custody?
The mother of my 6 year old child has been taken into hospital after a mental health relapse - she has been sectioned after a bad episode. She has been ill since before my child was born over 6 years ago with bipolar/depression related illness'. With the blessing of her family I have assumed full custody of my child until she is released from hospital, a recovery will not happen overnight as she had stopped taking her medication and needs to rebuild etc. She is a very good Mum whom I currently share unooficial custody with but I am concerned that she will demand her back full time as soon as she feels better, gven that this could put my child "at risk", I would like some advice please - should I involve social services in case this scenraio arises? should I take legal advice? would I be granted temporary full custody in any case? Any advice appreciated.
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I would go and talk to a lawyer and see what your rights are and what you should do. You have to do what is in the best interest of the child.
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If she demands full custody then take her to court. There is no way that she will be granted full custody. But court can be messy and cause the mother unnecessary trauma so try to resolve things between each other. Suggest joint custody until she is back on her feet




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Saturday, August 20, 2011

Mental health child custody

Mental health child custody?
The mother of my 6 year old child has been taken into hospital after a mental health relapse - she has been sectioned after a bad episode. She has been ill since before my child was born over 6 years ago with bipolar/depression related illness'. With the blessing of her family I have assumed full custody of my child until she is released from hospital, a recovery will not happen overnight as she had stopped taking her medication and needs to rebuild etc. She is a very good Mum whom I currently share unooficial custody with but I am concerned that she will demand her back full time as soon as she feels better, gven that this could put my child "at risk", I would like some advice please - should I involve social services in case this scenraio arises? should I take legal advice? would I be granted temporary full custody in any case? Any advice appreciated.
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You need to keep your child AWAY from her until she is "better"
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Go to court and make an emergency Motion for Custody. However, if you weren't married this may be a challenge unless you've had a DNA test or are on the birth certificate. I'm not sure how long a Section lasts; in the States it can be as little as 72 hours. She can demand return of the child the minute she's out of the hospital if you don't get a court order.




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Tuesday, August 16, 2011

why is it important to support a child's emotional health

why is it important to support a child's emotional health?
in a nursery? i just cant think!! LOL any help will be kindly appreciated :) i need to say why it is important, not just reasons how to do it. VERY CONFUSING LOL
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i think its very important to show children that you care about what they, whether its saying that a picture that they draw is pretty of it it was them learning to share. have discipline, yet reward them when they do things right.
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Helps them to develop "Key Social Emotional Skills Confidence Capacity to develop good relationships with peers and adults Concentration and persistence on challenging tasks Ability to effectively communicate emotions Ability to listen to instructions and be attentive Ability to solve social problems" When children do not have these skills, they often exhibit challenging behaviors. Building Relationships with Children Why is it important? The relationships that we build with children, families, and colleagues are at the foundation of everything we do. It is important to build these relationships early on rather than waiting until there is a problem. Children learn and develop in the context of relationships that are responsive, consistent, and nurturing. Children with the most challenging behaviors especially need these relationships, and yet their behaviors often prevent them from benefiting from those relationships. Adults̢۪ time and attention are very important to children, and we need to be sure that we are giving them that time and attention at times other than when they are engaging in challenging behavior. Parents and other colleagues (such as mental health providers and therapists) are critical partners in building children̢۪s social emotional competence. We should all work together to ensure children̢۪s success and prevent challenging behavior." Here is an answer from last week. http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AgCPdZS6iJWM9Lww9iSh6c0jzKIX;_ylv=3?qid=20090303065400AA1UTNm
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So the kid won't grow up to be an axe murderer, and I am not kidding. I have a kid in my class, he's 4, and his mom is not at all nurturing. He is always seeking attention, or that it, WAS always seeking attention by yelling out in class, and then looking at the teacher as he privately smiled. You could see that he was waiting for a reactioin, any reactioin would do, he just wanted attention of any kind. I suddenly realized one day what was up. so now I make sure I give that boy a hug and praise him for being a wonderful boy a couple of times in the 3 hours I am in the class. And I make sure it is unrelated to his behavior, although I do point out his great behavior when he's acting coooperative, but I don't link his hugs and praise to that. Worked like a charm. He is quieter, pays attention better, oh, he still occasionally misbehaves but nothing like he used to. I feel bad that I know I can't completely override the negative behavior of his mom toward him--not abusive, but he needs kindness and she is just typically impatient toward him, and it's become a habit with her. There is only so much you can say toward a mom like that, and she isn't really receptive anyway. A shame. I so hope he won't be on drugs to deaden his emotional pain when he is older--which is a real concern.





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Friday, August 12, 2011

Do you think reactivating some of our child activities would help some adult's health

Do you think reactivating some of our child activities would help some adult's health?
Games like tag and hide-and-seek, for example, are things that used to occupy our time (or at least mine) as a child with friends. Now, as an adult, usually I spend my time hanging out with friends by sitting down and talking. That is fine, of course, but I got to remembering when I was a kid and the thrill I had playing some of the youthful, very physical, games I did as a child. I was wondering, if adults were to, instead of just sitting around and talking, actually spend some recreation time with each other playing games like tag or hide-and-seek, do you think it would help increase both physical and mental health in some adults? Of course, sports is a good alternative too. But I was wondering if these "youthful" games might help just as much or more so in the psychological aspect due to it's prevalence in our youth.
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I think you have something going there. but it may be a bit difficult to get your friends to agree to play tag. Just because they may feel that it's childish and not exactly mature. but thats all bologna. if you set something up with the sole purpose was to have adults have the kind of fun they did as children then i think you'd be able to get them to join in. reflecting on childhood activities by actively doing them again would brighten up your mind well. But dont expect to have much fun with action figures, there is no way to match the imagination you had as kid playing with actionfigures.
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What a wonderful idea! Even the thought brings back such carefree, happy times. We used the broom as a horse, tree branches were swords. The local pond was endless hours of swinging on a tire attached to the tree. Catching frogs, grasshoppers or anything that was a challenge. That childhood, before computers, cell phones,what to wear, television, and discord. Thank you..for stirring the old memories up. And in answer to your question, yes, it was therapeutic. If only in my mind. But I do think it made me a better person.
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your question is a very complex one, and i will try to answer it in a nutshell, as i may... i am actually assuming that there are many different ways for one to mature, adulthood as understood by 'society' being not the only one. this assumption should implicitly address the supposition as to whether adults should play hide and seek. I think that there are those individuals that have grown beyond 'repair', that is their childhood may not be regained, only accessed by means of memory, and processed and evaluated. the lessons learned by this process could be many. there are also those that do not accept, whether they are aware or not is another matter, the concept of adulthood. these have to struggle in a settings that does allow for very little childlike playfulness or like attitudes. some manage to keep their child self alive to some extent although with great trauma, others, perhaps less aware, or fortunate, usually attempt to adjust at some social level by converting or investing their playfulness into those activities that are considered as fitting for grown ups, although somewhat marginally . there maybe other outlets for supressed 'childlike pshychology/outlook' as well, just throwing in some ideas here...




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Monday, August 8, 2011

Why do the Republicans want to outlaw abortions, but don't care if children have health care

Why do the Republicans want to outlaw abortions, but don't care if children have health care?
They must insist on every fetus go full term, but once the child is born they veto SCHIP so the child won't have any health care. I guess they expect newborns to go get jobs. So the child has to be born, but after that it's on it's own? We'll force you to cary the pregnancy out, but then the child better get a job because we're not paying for it? Doesn't make sense to me, all this compassion for unborn fetuses and absolutely none for children.
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The must want more unhealthy babies.
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make up anything you want.
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So, you're saying government sponsored health care is going to lower abortion rates? That's strange, because I understood that roughly 93% of abortions were done as late-term birth control, mostly because the parents didn't want to have to take care of their kids (it is a lot of work, after all). I don't see how government sponsored health care removes the obligation to take care of your kids, and so I don't see how it will lower abortion rates. It's not that Republicans hate kids and want them to be sick. We'd prefer all parents be capable of getting their own health insurance and keep moving up in the world. If the government does it for you, it becomes your crutch. Then there's no incentive to move forward, and it's not exactly quality living to be stuck to the government's umbilical cord.
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Conservatives have principles. The most important being freedom. We believe that people have the freedom to live without being murdered (abortion). We also believe that people should have the freedom to keep their own money, and not be forced at gun point to give their money to another citizen (SCHIP and other programs). See? Consistent positions based on the principle of individual liberty and freedom.
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nope, it's just the religious right is all for punishing ANYONE who doesn't conform to their specific idea of what is moral, but won't support anybody any of those lives they force to be born.
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It's a question for the ages. I've never gotten a single one of them to answer that question. They expect to be allowed to force a woman to give birth - because they believe it's their right to make that choice for her - but they don't think they then have any obligation to ensure that child is cared for properly. It's not okay to terminate a pregnancy, but it's totally okay with them if a child is sleeping on a subway vent in New York tonight just to try to keep warm because there isn't enough funding of social programs to make sure that he or she has a bed to sleep in. They're not pro-life, they're pro-fetus.
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oh i totally agree. my favorite is they are willing to give health care to illegal immigrants who have thier kids here. i pay taxes and i pay insurance and premium but i dont get any assistance. though i am prochoice (that movie if these walls could talk did me in with demi moore and the wire hangers) if i were to pay the medical bills just to have a baby would be over 10,000 i could go on and on but our children are our future and they need to be healthy
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Same reason Dems want to make me pay for a kid I didn't make, don't care about and yet they will butcher millions in the name of females rights. Well, IMHO, a woman chooses to have sex with me, let her support the results and stop begging for support etc.
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The equal protection of life is a Constitutionally worthy cause. However, nowhere in the Constitution does it discuss universal health care.
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Oh lord, I can't believe I'd ever defend GW! But there was A LOT of "pork" in that bill. Meaning that the money wasn't just for health care for kids, but for various "pet" projects as well.
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they make more money when they die in war.
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That is a salacious statement and patently untrue. We just don't think 21 year olds qualify as children and children of parents that make 80,000 a year qualify.
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It is a dichotomy. Basically, as we see with the Iraq occupation, neo-cons like to enforce rules, yet do not like to sacrifice anything for the very rules they wish to enforce. They always quote the slogan "freedom isn't free". Yet, they do not personally give up any comforts for this so-called, costly freedom. As we see, they have no reservations with borrowing and spending hundreds of billions of dollars from this nation's children. If it takes more than sticking a ribbon somewhere, forget about it.
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We do care if children have health care. We also care that it's children that actually need it, and preferably without the biggest tax hike in United States history to pay for it. The Democratic version of "poor" is anyone who makes up to 80,000 dollars a year. That's extended well into the middle class, who should darn well be paying for their own insurance already, and is unfair to whom the program was meant for. The Democratic definition of "child" is anyone up to the age of 25. The last time I checked, anyone over 18 was an adult, who should be responsible for themselves. If the Democrats would stop peddling their funny definitions into the Schip bill and trying to piggyback socialism, Bush would have passed it a long time ago. Why do THEY choose to play politics with children?
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Because they're Republicans. That's like asking why a retard is slow .....
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Because they only care about the fetuses and the zygotes. Once they'e born to unwanting mothers, Cons reject them because that means they'd need welfare. Hypocricy everytime!
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they only carry about "unborn" babies.... once they're born it's OK for them to go through life with know health insurance and OK for them to die in unjust wars in places far far away
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We do care about children having health care. We work to make sure OUR children have health care. I didn't sleep with your wife so your kids are not mine so I AM NOT GOING TO BUY THEM HEALTH CARE Don't have kids if YOU can't afford to make sure they are healthy and have insurance...
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I suppose they could have both, but that would mean deporting illegals and that we would have to stop paying for all the illegals medical bills first. Then we could take care of our own people, but for some reason the Democrats don't want the illegals (aka Criminals) to be harmed. just think how much more money we would have if we were not paying for the health care and education of these criminals.
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And what "episode" of CNN News did you get that silly statement from??
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We simply believe the choice to become a parent (or not)should take place before pregnancy. It's really not all that complicated if you view individuals responsible for their own actions. I've never had insurance for my son and he has never been denied healthcare. Just thought I'd throw that in for the bleeders.
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SCHIP was passed with bipartisan support. The EXPANSION of the program to 25 year olds whose family makes $80K a year was vetoed. Try again.
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If the conservatives believe that they should keep their own money, then how in the hell do you propose we pay for the necessities in this country? Why don't you people tell the truth? You want to choose where your tax dollars go, and helping the needy is not an option to you but corporate welfare is just great. Admit it, it is all about money with you.
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You have it wrong. Most of us don't have a problem with abortion, we just don't want tax dollars to pay for it.
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Well we see how misinformed Pfo is, when he thinks late term abortions make up 93% of all abortions. Stretching it as far as possible and making the claim that a late term abortion is any abortion after 13 weeks, when in reality late term is defined after 20, and some sources define it after 16 weeks; still abortions occuring after 13 weeks only make up at most 12% of all abortions, and that is including emergency partial birth abortions. 54% make up abortions prior to 8 weeks or less, and 20% make up 8-10 week abortions. 12% make up 11-12 week abortions. and of course these are estimates dropping the decimal so don't start crying about it doesn't even make up 100%! Most hospitals and clinics will not even perform abortions after the 16th week. They have their own policies against it. Making abortion illegal will drop it right into the hands of organized crime, prevent it from being regualted from any "in-house" policies or laws.





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Thursday, August 4, 2011

Looking for affordable health insurance in Arizona for my child ONLY

Looking for affordable health insurance in Arizona for my child ONLY?
Kidscare is no longer acccepting applicants and and SCHIP has been discontinued.....All the sites i go to that offer quotes are only for adults and the deductibles are outrageous.... HELP!!
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Many companies in Arizona have discontinued child only policies in response to the health care bill and the rest will soon follow. However, there are a few companies still available. Contact a local agent that works with all of the major companies for assistance. The agent can find any available plans. Don't be afraid of a high deductible. First, many plans have doctor visits and prescriptions that are not subject to the deductible. Second, there are cost effective policies available that can cover that deductible in some cases.





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Monday, August 1, 2011

What, if any, are the health risks of keeping multiple caged animals in a child's room

What, if any, are the health risks of keeping multiple caged animals in a child's room?
2 guinea pigs, a hamster, & a rabbit in a small room.
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Keep the animals clean.. That's the only thing I can think of. You don't want your kid to get sick from some weird disease. It also may be a good idea to have some air freshener in the room. Haha.




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