our home and is causing tension and stress between me and my husband
Marriage & Divorce - 4 Answers
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1 :
You need to explain that it is both your home and you are tired of giving it up to someone else. Tell him to make some changes or your gone. Help her by looking for a job and another place for her to live. Sometimes we have to speak rather rough so tell him and be serious about it.
2 :
You will have to put your foot down and tell him that the child cannot stay with you. Why is the child with you in the first place? Is the mother a drug addict? If she is or has shady characters in and out of her life, this could be why your husband lets the child stay with you. Is there someplace else the child can stay? Just tell your husband your feelings. Your marriage can't handle the stress and something needs to be done.
3 :
That's a tuff one. Without all of the facts it's hard to give an opinion. Is she on drugs, alcohol or just plain lazy. I think I would say on this one... If the tension in the household is because you resent her not taking responsibility for her child, then look at the situation more closely. Is it better for the child for you and hubby to be responsible? Think of all of the circumstances involved, then re think your complaint. Otherwise, the only one who is really paying...is the child. These kids see and feel the tension and stress more than you think... yet they don't truly understand why the happiness is not there. Don't underestimate kids.
4 :
I am not going to send you to some web site for an answer. What you should do is sit your husband down for a serious discussion. Please talk to him alone where you won't be disturbed and try to be assertive and don't attack him. You should be able to work out your differences in an adult manner if you want your marriage to thrive.
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